Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Aries
There have been a lot of books and theories written in recent years about the differences
between men and women. Theories claiming that we are psychologically too different to really
understand each other. Books claiming to teach us how to better appreciate the opposite sex.
I would like to add my own humble opinion to this mess. I believe that men and women are not
as different as most people believe. The biggest problem facing relationships is not our
differences or lack of communications. It is our hatred.
THE HATRED MUST STOP!
Men and women are NOT from different planets. It is not a matter of "warriors" versus "lovers".
Both sexes are equally confrontational and warlike. It is a very unfortunate circumstance that
our society has managed to foster several generations of men and women who hate each other. I
know what you're thinking ... "I don't hate (men/women), I LOVE them" ... but please hear me
out. That statement is the most often misused claim I have ever heard. Let's start with the
The vast majority of men in this country are misogynists. I am not exaggerating, guys, you may
be saying "I love women", but in reality, what is it you want? If you are purely looking for
somebody to have sex with, someone to use for your whims and leave when you're done, you are
misogynist. If you are looking for a domestic servant, someone to cook for you and clean up
after you, and do anything you say, you are misogynist. If you view women primarily as objects
of desire, you are misogynist. This word sounds very nasty and bad, but this IS what it means.
Misogynists are only interested in women for their own purposes. They consider non-misogynist
men to be un-masculine and call them things like "pansy" or "pussy-whipped" or "wussies". They
don't realize that by acting this way they not only make us all look bad, but they also make
the women's hatred of men grow.
And yes women hate men. There is no corresponding term for it, misanthropy being reserved for
humanity as a race instead of men as a gender, but it is just as bad. These men-hating women
exhibit similar behaviors as the women-hating men. Yes, some women are players who only want
men for the sex. Others exhibit their hatred in other ways. For example, a women who merely
wants a man for monetary reasons, someone to support her whims but whom she does not really
care about, is a man-hater. A woman who enjoys watching men fight over her is also a man-hater,
as she is callously allowing two men who she supposedly cares about to cause physical harm to
one another. Many women develop their hatred of men because they were abused or abandoned by
husbands or fathers or other men in their lives. Mothers who are in these situations often take
out their anger upon the children of these men. One shocking symptom of this is a striking sub-
culture arising of young men who undergo voluntary castration because they feel dirty possessing
The hatred exists everywhere in this country. It is not localized or sporadic. It is one of the
major contributing factors to high crime rates and the breakdown of families. If I personally
were to meet a woman who told me she was either divorced or getting a divorce because "my
husband is an asshole", I would view that as a sign to stay away, because you know for a fact
that it wasn't long ago this same woman pledged her undying love to this man, and for some
reason, often unknown to him, she has decided she hates him. If I were to get involved how long
would it be before she decided to hate me as well? This kind of stress is not something I
welcome or desire.
Well I just had to say that, hopefully one person will read it and change their ways. If I
achieve that much, then I have made the world a better place. But then again I AM a hopeless
- Chuck aka Hoenir aka SleepTilNoon WebMonkey
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